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Movies that are simply stories… with very little plot and action… can be hit or miss for me. Sometimes I relish the story, loose myself in it and enjoy the experience. Then sometimes I spend the 2 hrs in the theatre wondering when the point of the movie will begin only to find out there wasn’t one. Whose to tell how one hits the mark and the other doesn’t? My mood? The company I’m with? The environment? I don’t know. It’s simply a puzzle to me. The Time Traveler’s Wife is a simple story. And when the story is simple, you rely heavily on the depth of the characters and their relationships with each other to draw you in. That somewhat easier to do in a book than it is to do on screen with a limited amount of time. I think that’s what was missing for me in this – the nature of the story meant telling things backwards, which is fine, except that the story is about their relationship. Watching it unfold for one person backwards, while for another it’s already happened is tricky business....

I've got a new post up at my new blog. Complementarianism vs. Egalitarianism

over to wordpress. I feel the need to refocus ... or maybe I'm just getting antsy. This may be temporary, because I am used to blogger. But in the meantime, you can find me here .

I've had it for almost a week now and I can't stop listening. It's incredible.

I read a book this last semester called The Relational Way : From small group structures to holistic life connections (by M. Scott Boren) for a one week class I had in January. The author talks about how there are four spaces or distances that determine how a person relates to others. 1.) The Public Space of Belonging 2.) The Social Space of Belonging 3.) The Personal Space of Belonging 4.) The Intimate Space of Belonging Before I talk about these spaces, let me preface it by reminding you that Presbyterians... or maybe just the people around here, are really good at talking about their sin There is pressure here for everyone to be in my intimate space of belonging. So much of it could be due to the season of life seminary is, but I am not really comfortable with that. As I realized this intimate space of belonging wasn't what was actually bothering me, I started to look at relationships differently. To define the different spaces... The public space of belonging is about connec...

Who'd thought Regina Spector would have a hint of reformed faith in her music?

What a great way to start my day. Carlos, over at ragamuffinsoul.com posted last night about leaving his great and wonderful job aa Creative Programming Director at Buckhead Church. So, I'm going through my reader this morning, see the post and so I head over there to see what the deal is. Per usual, God is doing something awesome, and I won't explain it here 'cuase it's too complicated. But this exchange in the comments? Was a great way to start my day. Sire's comment: "Carlos, you are a brave man." Carlos' reply: "No, Sire. Brave would be staying when God says go."